Tuesday, April 28, 2009

REACH YOUR DREAM

A young man aged twenty-year dream of a day later he became a millionaire. He was full aware that the dream is something that is able to inspire motivation and provide direction for the life of every human being. this dream and then to the beloved.
Some time later they were married.

Unfortunately, not long after going a severe economic crisis. The period of great depression arrived! In this pair and a variety of distressing events in their lives. Start from the car and lose their jobs, houses pawned to diminish the more the savings from day to day. The youth is experiencing tremendous frustration. He often sat alone pensive. He even suggested that he leave his wife. He does not feel able to be more a good husband. He felt in his life have failed.

Who would suspect the wife does not lose hopes the least? The wife of a loving and is always close . With fed- not convince him of the husband
that dream to become a millionaire is not yet dead, and they certainly can achieve together one day soon. "My husband, we should still do something so that our dream is still alive," he said repeatedly to the husband. "Stay alive?" Answered the husband, "Dreamland we died! We have failed! "

The wife still does not want to believe that the dream was dead. He is not even prepared to bury the dream! To keep the dream of life is it to invite the husband to design what will they do if they wait a while to become millionaire. Both of them and start doing this every time you finish dinner.

Time passed and continue their activities are still only doing the same until one day the husband got a brilliant idea:
create a money game. Ie, goods are purchased if someone has a "money", such as land, houses, buildings, etc.. The idea is they hold . They added a game board, dice, cards, small houses, small hotels, etc..
Can you guess the game is this? Yes, exactly! Game is called monopoly. Yes, that's the story of how Charles Darrow and his wife, Esther is creating a game. This game and then sold to a businessman with the price of one million dollars
and a millionaire's dream was realized!

This story really move my heart. Not how, in this life not many people who can hold firm to their dream. Sometimes the dream to be a "faded before developing." Pity once! Many people who know that the dream was to become the beginning of the struggle for realize tomorrow is better, but unfortunately also many who do not dare to dream. But a dream
it's free. A dream that every human rights. Moreover, the dream is not a criminal action.

There are also groups of people who dare to dream but are reluctant to sacrifice to realize these dreams. In seminars or training I often say, "If you are not prepared to sacrifice the dream you forget it. The bigger you dream the big sacrifice that you must do. "

The question now, so how can we dream become a reality? Based on personal experience and from what I have learned a number of important steps that needed to be a dream can become reality. First, focus your dream. Make your dream become a target and write. You have to imagine in your mind to your dream. People often say that you made the target element has a SMART
S = specific (specify make possible), M = measurable (can be measured or number. For example, not have the money or how many rupiah car with the price), A = achievable (can be. people who have already achieved at this time), R = realistic (realistic means in accordance with the resources you currently have or
still in your control, not other people) and T = time bound (no time limit, meaning that when you realized that you'd like).

Second, try to write the benefits that can be obtained if the dream is realized. Should benefit not only for yourself but also for people who love you most, the people around you and the other fellow. The greater the benefits you can get then you will be more vibrant in reach it.
Moreover, if we are aware of the name of the Lord will be honored if the dream is realized.

Third, prayer is your dream. Ask for God's help for how hard we are working will be futile if the Source of All Grace bless not. Sometimes we dream not realized because contrary to His will or not is the time. For that, you try to spend enough time so that they can communicate with him about this dream you.

Fourth, identification of all the problems or obstacles that you will probably face in order to realize these dreams. Fifth, identification of the person, group of people or organizations that maybe can help you realize the dream. Maybe you will get a person, group or organization that can together
with you so they can even have the same dream so you can work with them.

Sixth, the identification of knowledge and skill, what you really need in order to achieve these dreams. Maybe you should read some books, take courses, seminars or training. Do not hesitate to continue to learn and improve. Les Brown once said, "To achieve something you have never achieved before, you must become someone you have never been before." Yes, to achieve something you've never tired you must be a person that is different from before.

Seventh, make a plan of action that is the steps of the you. Eighth: the action. Without action, you will only be forbidden to become a member organization for people who want to succeed the NADO (no action dream only). Ninth, keep your mental attitude. Keep thinking positive and be dare arise from failure. Remember that positive attitude will attract more success to yourself! Tenth, continuous evaluation of your steps.
If necessary changes, do not hesitate to do so. Do not be rigid! Be flexible in the matter of how or methods.

I close this time we meet with a very valuable advice from Dr. Benjamin Mays, "Keep in mind once the opinion that we are different in the life of tragedy can not be a reason for not achieving our dream. Tragedy not to be any reason we dream is not achieved. Die with a dream is not achieved is not a disaster, but it does not have any dream at all is a disaster. Can not achieve something that is not the stars
shame, but does not have any desire reach stars is shameful. Failure is common but does not have the will of the confusion! "Happy dreaming! ***

Source: Reach Your Dream by P. Winarto, trainer, author book First Step to be An Entrepreneur, Top Secrets of Success and Reach Your Maximum Potential

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