LOVE ISN'T BLIND

" When two people love each other, nothing is more imperative and
delightful than giving. " - Guy de Maupassant -

Foothold on the feelings of love at the same time sense. Missconception first
be gazed Bowman is a man fall in love with the
mere feeling. Yes, we fall in love with the heart. But that does not
cause disruption in the future, we are expected to also
use common sense.

It's a great lies if we could fall in love with it so can without.
That indeed happens, the process of falling in love is influenced
traditions, customs, standards, ideas, and deal the group from which we
come.

Whopper also feel if we can do anything when the fall
love, and can not be questioned when asked
impulsive deeds that reflect upon a time later.

Loss of perspective is not a sign we fall in love, but
signal ignorance. Love requires the process, Bowman also rejected the contention
love can be derived from the first sight. "The love that grows and
developed and is emotionally complex, "he said.

To grow and develop, love takes time. So indeed
may we not love someone who does not out-source ideas
with the board.

Love never attacked suddenly, also does not fall from the sky.
Love only comes when two individuals have been successfully
re-orientation towards life and decided to choose another person
as a new focal point. The phenomenon may occur in the "love
on
first sight "is the pair fell ill feelings of mutual interest
which is very strong even crazed. Then feeling compulsive
was developed through a love without a rest period. In the case of "love
at first sight ", many people do not really love
spouses, but fall in love on the concept of love itself.
Instead the people who really love, they love
pair
personalities as a whole.

Love does not control and yield, but to share. Not the name of love
when we have the pair. Also not in love when we
are willing to give satisfaction for the lovers. People do not love the beloved as superior or subordinate, but as a pair
to
sharing, as well as to identify themselves. If we wish
the beloved (to limit world,
positive, always criticize)
or yield only (does not protest when the lovers do bad, do not
objection), then we is not ready to give and receive
love.

Love is constructive.
Individuals who do love of life for the sake of their own
while for the (pride) pair. He dare ambitious, dream
constructive, and plan the future. Instead of falling with
impulsive love. Not think and act in constructive, he
loss of ambition, appetite, and interest in the problem
day-to-day. The
thought only private misery. The dream is not possible
reached. Even the dream can become a substitute reality.

Love does not eliminate all the problems the trust understand romance
love can overcome the problem. As if love is the medicine for all
disease (panacea). Poverty problem and many others believed to be
Seeing the deal with the sheer love. In fact, love is not amazing that.

Only love can make a pair of lovers dare tackle.
As heavy as any problems with approach may be clear that
found exit. People being silly does not mean -
actually tend loving-time blind eye problems.
Rather than act with tact, he put aside problem.

Love tends to be constant
Yes, love is constantly moving. So we should when suspicious graph
feelings in our beloved fluctuation is very sharp. If we are far
inamorato feel more powerful when compared with, that we sign
idealist, not view them realistically. So when
back together, we see the lovers with more critical and disappeared all the great shadow. Rather be careful when we feel
beloved great time with our close and no longer feel the
the same time he was away. This indicates such by our
physical attraction.

Love the sound when the time near and far from the pair, we
it comparable in value.

Love does not focus on physical attraction
In love relationships, physical attraction is important. But when the danger
lovers like us only a physical and hate for many
other factors. When fall in love, we enjoy and to give meaning
important for any physical contact. Physical contact, know, just feels
fun when we like each other and pair personality
respectively. But not the name of love, but lust, when we
assume
physical contact only pleasant sensation without meaning anything.
In love, affection realized later time in the relationship more. Medium
lust demands fulfill physical from beginning.

Love is not blind, but receive
Love is blind? Not at all. People see and love
realize the poor lass. Because the amount of love, he tries
receive
and tolerate. Of course there is the desire that the poor are improved. However,
desire is to be based on good intention and attention. Not allowed
have rough criticism, disapproval, indignation, or revulsion. That lust the
blind. Although the pair are very poor, who formed a relationship with
receive a full appetite without the desire to improve. Also leave
when the pair take pride desires, just as couples have a little
deterioration that may be very improved.

Love considers the relationship continuance
People really pay attention to love the development of relationships
with the beloved. He avoided anything that might damage the relationship.
As much as possible the action that he can strengthen,
maintain, and promote the relationship. People are crazy
might
just working hard fun lovers. But the business is solely
accept it was so beloved, so that satisfaction reached. People love fun pair to strengthen
relationship.

Love dare to do so painful
In addition to trying fun lovers, people who really love have the attention, concern, understanding, and courage
to
do things that are not preferred to the good lovers. As a
mother who said "no" when their children ask for ice cream, but are
flu.

That we should all be on the pair ....