Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Our Prayer

When i ask God the strength
God's given me trouble so I became a strong

When i ask God the wisdom wisdom
God gives me problems to be solved

When i ask God on welfare
God given intellect to think

When i ask God on courage
God's given me the condition of danger to be handled

When i ask God assistance
God's given me the opportunity

..... I never accept what i ask ..
but I accept that i need...

Prayer have just answered....Thanks God


Thanks AA for the inspiration.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

ATTITUDE QUOTES

"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind."
— William James
Psychologist


"The most positive men are the most credulous."
— Alexander Pope


"No one ever finds life worth living—he has to make it worth living."
— Unknown


"Pity is one of the noblest emotions available to human beings; self-pity is possibly the most ignoble . . . . [It] is an incapacity, a crippling emotional disease that severely distorts our perception of reality . . . a narcotic that leaves its addicts wasted and derelict."
— Eugene H. Peterson
Author of Earth and Altar


"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; noting on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude."
— W. W. Ziege


"A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him."
— David Brinkley
Television Journalist


"We can not tell what may happen to you in the strange medley of life. But we can decide what happens to us—how we take it, what we do with it—and that is what really counts in the end."
— Joseph F. Newton


"You can not always control circumstances, but you can control your own thoughts."
— Charles Popplestown


"If we did all the things we were capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves."
— Thomas Edison


"Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious ... think about these things."
— Philippians 4:8


"Everything can be taken from a man or a woman but one thing: the last of human freedoms —to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
— Victor Frankl
Man's Search For Meaning


"If you will call your troubles experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be."
— John R. Miller


"Cultivate optimism by committing yourself to a cause, a plan or a value system. You'll feel that you are growing in a meaningful direction which will help you rise above day-to-day setbacks."
— Dr. Robert Conroy
in Bottom Line-Personal


"The winner's edge is not in a gifted birth, a high IQ, or in talent. The winner's edge is all in the attitude, not aptitude. Attitude is the criterion for success."
— Dennis Waitley


"Let your Discourse with Men of Business be Short and Comprehensive."
— George Washington
Rules of Civility


"If a man be gloomy let him keep to himself. No one has the right to go croaking about society, or what is worse, looking as if he stifled grief."
— Benjamin Disraeli


"What you think means more than anything else in your life. More than what you earn, more than where you live, more than your social position, and more than what anyone else may think about you."
— George Matthew Adams
Author


"[Sprezzatura ("unstudied nonchalance"):] Employ in everything a certain casualness which conceals art and creates the impression that what is done and said is accomplished without effort and without its being thought about. It is from this, in my opinion, that grace largely derives."
— Baldassare Castiglione
The Book of the Courtier, 1528


"Change your thoughts and you change the world."
— Norman Vincent Peale


"Whether you think you can or think you can't, you are right."
— Henry Ford


"Up is never where you are now."
— Belasco & Stayer


"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort."
— Herm Albright


source : http://www.leadershipnow.com

REACH YOUR DREAM

A young man aged twenty-year dream of a day later he became a millionaire. He was full aware that the dream is something that is able to inspire motivation and provide direction for the life of every human being. this dream and then to the beloved.
Some time later they were married.

Unfortunately, not long after going a severe economic crisis. The period of great depression arrived! In this pair and a variety of distressing events in their lives. Start from the car and lose their jobs, houses pawned to diminish the more the savings from day to day. The youth is experiencing tremendous frustration. He often sat alone pensive. He even suggested that he leave his wife. He does not feel able to be more a good husband. He felt in his life have failed.

Who would suspect the wife does not lose hopes the least? The wife of a loving and is always close . With fed- not convince him of the husband
that dream to become a millionaire is not yet dead, and they certainly can achieve together one day soon. "My husband, we should still do something so that our dream is still alive," he said repeatedly to the husband. "Stay alive?" Answered the husband, "Dreamland we died! We have failed! "

The wife still does not want to believe that the dream was dead. He is not even prepared to bury the dream! To keep the dream of life is it to invite the husband to design what will they do if they wait a while to become millionaire. Both of them and start doing this every time you finish dinner.

Time passed and continue their activities are still only doing the same until one day the husband got a brilliant idea:
create a money game. Ie, goods are purchased if someone has a "money", such as land, houses, buildings, etc.. The idea is they hold . They added a game board, dice, cards, small houses, small hotels, etc..
Can you guess the game is this? Yes, exactly! Game is called monopoly. Yes, that's the story of how Charles Darrow and his wife, Esther is creating a game. This game and then sold to a businessman with the price of one million dollars
and a millionaire's dream was realized!

This story really move my heart. Not how, in this life not many people who can hold firm to their dream. Sometimes the dream to be a "faded before developing." Pity once! Many people who know that the dream was to become the beginning of the struggle for realize tomorrow is better, but unfortunately also many who do not dare to dream. But a dream
it's free. A dream that every human rights. Moreover, the dream is not a criminal action.

There are also groups of people who dare to dream but are reluctant to sacrifice to realize these dreams. In seminars or training I often say, "If you are not prepared to sacrifice the dream you forget it. The bigger you dream the big sacrifice that you must do. "

The question now, so how can we dream become a reality? Based on personal experience and from what I have learned a number of important steps that needed to be a dream can become reality. First, focus your dream. Make your dream become a target and write. You have to imagine in your mind to your dream. People often say that you made the target element has a SMART
S = specific (specify make possible), M = measurable (can be measured or number. For example, not have the money or how many rupiah car with the price), A = achievable (can be. people who have already achieved at this time), R = realistic (realistic means in accordance with the resources you currently have or
still in your control, not other people) and T = time bound (no time limit, meaning that when you realized that you'd like).

Second, try to write the benefits that can be obtained if the dream is realized. Should benefit not only for yourself but also for people who love you most, the people around you and the other fellow. The greater the benefits you can get then you will be more vibrant in reach it.
Moreover, if we are aware of the name of the Lord will be honored if the dream is realized.

Third, prayer is your dream. Ask for God's help for how hard we are working will be futile if the Source of All Grace bless not. Sometimes we dream not realized because contrary to His will or not is the time. For that, you try to spend enough time so that they can communicate with him about this dream you.

Fourth, identification of all the problems or obstacles that you will probably face in order to realize these dreams. Fifth, identification of the person, group of people or organizations that maybe can help you realize the dream. Maybe you will get a person, group or organization that can together
with you so they can even have the same dream so you can work with them.

Sixth, the identification of knowledge and skill, what you really need in order to achieve these dreams. Maybe you should read some books, take courses, seminars or training. Do not hesitate to continue to learn and improve. Les Brown once said, "To achieve something you have never achieved before, you must become someone you have never been before." Yes, to achieve something you've never tired you must be a person that is different from before.

Seventh, make a plan of action that is the steps of the you. Eighth: the action. Without action, you will only be forbidden to become a member organization for people who want to succeed the NADO (no action dream only). Ninth, keep your mental attitude. Keep thinking positive and be dare arise from failure. Remember that positive attitude will attract more success to yourself! Tenth, continuous evaluation of your steps.
If necessary changes, do not hesitate to do so. Do not be rigid! Be flexible in the matter of how or methods.

I close this time we meet with a very valuable advice from Dr. Benjamin Mays, "Keep in mind once the opinion that we are different in the life of tragedy can not be a reason for not achieving our dream. Tragedy not to be any reason we dream is not achieved. Die with a dream is not achieved is not a disaster, but it does not have any dream at all is a disaster. Can not achieve something that is not the stars
shame, but does not have any desire reach stars is shameful. Failure is common but does not have the will of the confusion! "Happy dreaming! ***

Source: Reach Your Dream by P. Winarto, trainer, author book First Step to be An Entrepreneur, Top Secrets of Success and Reach Your Maximum Potential

REACH YOUR DREAM

A young man aged twenty-year dream of a day later he became a millionaire. He was full aware that the dream is something that is able to inspire motivation and provide direction for the life of every human being. this dream and then to the beloved.
Some time later they were married.

Unfortunately, not long after going a severe economic crisis. The period of great depression arrived! In this pair and a variety of distressing events in their lives. Start from the car and lose their jobs, houses pawned to diminish the more the savings from day to day. The youth is experiencing tremendous frustration. He often sat alone pensive. He even suggested that he leave his wife. He does not feel able to be more a good husband. He felt in his life have failed.

Who would suspect the wife does not lose hopes the least? The wife of a loving and is always close . With fed- not convince him of the husband
that dream to become a millionaire is not yet dead, and they certainly can achieve together one day soon. "My husband, we should still do something so that our dream is still alive," he said repeatedly to the husband. "Stay alive?" Answered the husband, "Dreamland we died! We have failed! "

The wife still does not want to believe that the dream was dead. He is not even prepared to bury the dream! To keep the dream of life is it to invite the husband to design what will they do if they wait a while to become millionaire. Both of them and start doing this every time you finish dinner.

Time passed and continue their activities are still only doing the same until one day the husband got a brilliant idea:
create a money game. Ie, goods are purchased if someone has a "money", such as land, houses, buildings, etc.. The idea is they hold . They added a game board, dice, cards, small houses, small hotels, etc..
Can you guess the game is this? Yes, exactly! Game is called monopoly. Yes, that's the story of how Charles Darrow and his wife, Esther is creating a game. This game and then sold to a businessman with the price of one million dollars
and a millionaire's dream was realized!

This story really move my heart. Not how, in this life not many people who can hold firm to their dream. Sometimes the dream to be a "faded before developing." Pity once! Many people who know that the dream was to become the beginning of the struggle for realize tomorrow is better, but unfortunately also many who do not dare to dream. But a dream
it's free. A dream that every human rights. Moreover, the dream is not a criminal action.

There are also groups of people who dare to dream but are reluctant to sacrifice to realize these dreams. In seminars or training I often say, "If you are not prepared to sacrifice the dream you forget it. The bigger you dream the big sacrifice that you must do. "

The question now, so how can we dream become a reality? Based on personal experience and from what I have learned a number of important steps that needed to be a dream can become reality. First, focus your dream. Make your dream become a target and write. You have to imagine in your mind to your dream. People often say that you made the target element has a SMART
S = specific (specify make possible), M = measurable (can be measured or number. For example, not have the money or how many rupiah car with the price), A = achievable (can be. people who have already achieved at this time), R = realistic (realistic means in accordance with the resources you currently have or
still in your control, not other people) and T = time bound (no time limit, meaning that when you realized that you'd like).

Second, try to write the benefits that can be obtained if the dream is realized. Should benefit not only for yourself but also for people who love you most, the people around you and the other fellow. The greater the benefits you can get then you will be more vibrant in reach it.
Moreover, if we are aware of the name of the Lord will be honored if the dream is realized.

Third, prayer is your dream. Ask for God's help for how hard we are working will be futile if the Source of All Grace bless not. Sometimes we dream not realized because contrary to His will or not is the time. For that, you try to spend enough time so that they can communicate with him about this dream you.

Fourth, identification of all the problems or obstacles that you will probably face in order to realize these dreams. Fifth, identification of the person, group of people or organizations that maybe can help you realize the dream. Maybe you will get a person, group or organization that can together
with you so they can even have the same dream so you can work with them.

Sixth, the identification of knowledge and skill, what you really need in order to achieve these dreams. Maybe you should read some books, take courses, seminars or training. Do not hesitate to continue to learn and improve. Les Brown once said, "To achieve something you have never achieved before, you must become someone you have never been before." Yes, to achieve something you've never tired you must be a person that is different from before.

Seventh, make a plan of action that is the steps of the you. Eighth: the action. Without action, you will only be forbidden to become a member organization for people who want to succeed the NADO (no action dream only). Ninth, keep your mental attitude. Keep thinking positive and be dare arise from failure. Remember that positive attitude will attract more success to yourself! Tenth, continuous evaluation of your steps.
If necessary changes, do not hesitate to do so. Do not be rigid! Be flexible in the matter of how or methods.

I close this time we meet with a very valuable advice from Dr. Benjamin Mays, "Keep in mind once the opinion that we are different in the life of tragedy can not be a reason for not achieving our dream. Tragedy not to be any reason we dream is not achieved. Die with a dream is not achieved is not a disaster, but it does not have any dream at all is a disaster. Can not achieve something that is not the stars
shame, but does not have any desire reach stars is shameful. Failure is common but does not have the will of the confusion! "Happy dreaming! ***

Source: Reach Your Dream by P. Winarto, trainer, author book First Step to be An Entrepreneur, Top Secrets of Success and Reach Your Maximum Potential

RESPECT OF OTHERS

By: Andrie Wongso

In a farewell party simple resignation of a director
leading private companies. Held a session event delivery
messages, impressions, and criticism of children's fruit to the former one
immediately enter into the pension from the company.

Because a limited time, these are opportunities
stated in writing. Among the praise and the impression that
given, and selected framed for memory is then read
in the event, ie, a note with the style of any posts stroke
from an office boy who has been working long enough in the company.

He wrote all the capital letters as follows, "The
Dear Mr. Director. Thank you because you have to
the word "help", every time you give a task which is
my responsibilities. Thank you, Mr. Pak has been the Director of the
say "sorry", while Mr. reprimand, and try to remind
let every mistake that was because Mr. consist want
I change to be good.

Thank you, Mr. as Director for the "receipt
love "to me on the small things that I've worked for
Director. Accept love for all awards to the people
I like small, so I can keep working with the
as well as possible, with head erect, without feeling degraded and
be diminished. And at any time until the father is the Director for me.
Thank you once again. Hopefully God gives roads wherever Mr.
Director is located. Amen. "

After a moment of silence envelop the room, clap in unison
hand to meet the room reverb. Tacit Director of the
pool in the corner of the tears parents, compassionate heart to hear the expression
an office boy who is with the faithful to serve the needs
the entire office.

Director never thought once that the same attitude and speech
that this is done, according to him is so simple and
ordinary-ordinary course, have been able to give meaning to people such as small
the boy's office.
Choosed for any posts that enshrined, because the entire office
that agree and agree that the pattern of leadership and the Director of Pak
they will continue as the company culture.

The readers,

Three words "thanks, sorry, and I" is a short sentence
very simple but have a positive impact. But why
words is sometimes very difficult we say? In fact the
does not directly have shown appearance and her greatness of the soul
human told. Moreover, spoken by a leader
to subordinates.

Leaders not only govern and supervise, but more on
attitudes through a pattern of thinking, speech, and action that is capable of
guide, foster, and develop the so lead create synergies in achieving shared goals.

Of anyone we need to get the words
short as gratitude, forgiveness, and help wherever, whenever,
and with everyone we touch. With people able to appreciate
at least we have another respect ourselves.

A GIFT THAT CALLED "TIME"

Imagine a bank that gives you a money loan of Rp. 86,400, - the same morning. All the money that you need to use. At night, the bank will remove the rest of the money that you do not use during the day. Try guess, what will you do? Of course, spend all that money.

Each of us has such a bank; called TIME. Each morning, you will give is 86,400 seconds. In the evening it will be delete the remaining time that you do not want to use for both purposes. Because he does not give you the rest of the time. He also does not provide additional time. Every day he will open a new account for you. Every night he would burn the remaining. If you do not use the loss will befall you. You can not withdraw it again. Also, you can not ask for "cash advance" for the next day. You must live in the reserve today. Therefore, do invest for health, happiness and your success.

Hours continue to rattle. Use your time as well as possible.

Importance of time in order to know the year, ask the students who failed the class.
Know the importance of time so that A MONTH, ask the mother who delivered premature babies.
So that know the importance of time a week, check the weekly magazine editor.
So that it knows the importance of time, ask the lovers waiting to meet.
Know the importance of time so that a minute, ask the people behind the aircraft.
Know the importance of time so that ONE SECOND, ask the people that just avoid an accident.
Know the importance of time so that ONE PER SECOND, ask at the Olympic silver medalist.

GOD'S PLAN MUST BE BEAUTIFUL

When I was young, my mother was being one piece of cloth embroidery. I currently play on the floor, look up and ask, what he did. He explains that he is the embroidery on the one piece of cloth. But I let him, that I saw from the bottom of the thread is difficult.

Mother smile and said with a soft: "Son, while the mother completed a sampler this later after you finish, you will be called and i sat you, lap on the mother and you can see this from the top of the embroidery."

I wonder, why use the mother of a black and white yarn, so the chaotic your view, Some time later, I heard the mother's voice calling, "my son, come here, Sit on the lap and the mother."

Time I do that, I am astonished and amazed to see the flowers beautiful, with the background of the sun that is currently being published, is really wonderful. I almost did not see it to believe, because the bottom of the thread I see is just a thread-complex.

Then mother said: "Son, are visible from the bottom of the intricate and perplexed, but you do not realize that the cloth is already planned to have a picture, a pattern, only the mother to follow them.

Now, with the view from the top you can see the beauty of what mothers do.

Often over the years, I look to the top and ask God;
"God, what do you do?"

He said:
"I am currently embroidery your life."
And I rebut, "But this life seems difficult, yarn, thread a lot of black, why not use all the bright colors?"

Then God said, "my dear you continue your work, and I also completed my work on this earth. One time later I will call you to heaven and sit at my feet, and you will see the beautiful My plan from My side ."